Fear

Dr Sowmya

Fear

Fear: Observing it: Turning Shadows into Light.

The night was still, save for the occasional rustling of leaves. Within the confines of a quiet room, a heart pounded, echoing in the silence. Fear. An ancient, primal force. It lurks in the recesses of our minds, whispering tales of danger and doom.

It thrives on imagination. “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself,” said Franklin D. Roosevelt. His words ring true. It is often a shadow, a specter born from our thoughts. It is a creation of the mind, not of the world.

Imagine a child standing at the edge of a diving board. The water below shimmers, inviting. Yet the child’s legs tremble. What if they fall? What if they can’t swim? The reality is simple: they know how to swim. Surrounded by friends. Safety is within reach. But the mind conjures catastrophe.

It takes many forms. Some are obvious, like the fear of heights or spiders. Others are subtle and insidious. The fear of success is one such phantom. It masquerades as doubt and caution. We fear the unknown, the responsibilities that success might bring. “What if I can’t handle it?” whispers the inner voice.

Then there’s the fear of completion. Projects linger unfinished, not for lack of skill, but because of what finishing them might mean. Completion brings judgment. It invites the possibility of failure. As long as a task is incomplete, its potential remains untarnished.

It is not just an abstract concept. It weaves itself into the fabric of our lives. It affects our health. Stress and anxiety, their constant companions, erode our well-being. its chronicity disrupts sleep, muddles our thoughts, and wears down our bodies. Relationships suffer under its weight. Trust wavers, intimacy falters. The fear of vulnerability keeps walls high and hearts guarded.

In the realm of finance, it is a formidable foe. The fear of losing money keeps us from taking risks. Of not having enough drives us to hoard, to work endlessly, to prioritize wealth over well-being. “Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears,” said Les Brown.

Yet, it is not invincible. It can be faced, understood, and diminished. Observing it is the first step. When we bring it into the light, it loses some of its power. We can see it for what it is: a projection, not a prophecy.

Recognizing the different faces is crucial. Fear of success, completion, and those gnaw at our health, relationships, and finances – all share a common root. They are born from within, nourished by our thoughts.

To overcome it, we must confront it. We must dive into the water, finish the project, open our hearts, and take calculated risks. By doing so, we transform fear from a master into a servant. It becomes a guide, a signpost pointing towards growth and change.

In the end, fear is a part of the human experience. It can paralyze, but it can also propel. It can be a barrier or a bridge. By observing our fears, we learn to navigate the landscape of our minds. We become the authors of our stories, not mere characters trapped in a narrative of fear.

I am a physician and life skills and relationship coach, exploring the complexities of fear and its impact on our lives. And don’t worry, you don’t have to fear me—I’m here to help you laugh in it’s face. Connect to Dr.Sowmya

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